My messy story – a summary Hi, my name is Janice. I’m going to be telling you my messy story, a very personal story that necessarily involves many people in my life. To protect those relationships I am going to Read more…
While becoming a people pleaser is a common trauma response, it is not healthy and understanding it’s true Nature can help you heal better.
Refining Gold is a high pressure, in the fire process, it’s trials that make us who we are.
A blank page dream Ever recieved a letter that was just a blank page in an envelope? Usually comes with another envelope already stamped and addressed to the one who sent it to you. I woke up a couple days Read more…
Peacemaker vs. Peacekeeper A Peace Maker has healthy boundaries. Did you know there’s a major difference between Peace Making and Peace Keeping? This was a big revelation for me when I was taught this. I always thought I was being Read more…
Trust God You can find truth beyond your trauma. In the Wilderness times following trauma it can be hard to trust anyone. “Trust God” is a hard statement to hear. However, believing that God is good through the wilderness times Read more…
While it’s very important that we talk about our feelings or things that have hurt us, HOW is just as important. I know I tend to retreat a lot, then one day it all blows up. Finding this balance is important. It is important to express our hurts and set our boundaries. Our ability to love big is protected as boundaries are set. Going to the other extreme, however, is unsafe for those around us.
Meal Prepping is Biblical – yes, you read that right. Now, hang on before you go all crazy in one direction or the other – I am not saying that it is a requirement for salvation or anything extreme like Read more…
I want a Godly Man – but what does that really mean? I want a Godly Man. We who have been raised in the church, or even just in the Bible belt, have been known to say this. There is Read more…
Trust – even if what you are going through is hard. Even if you don’t understand why, TRUST. When it doesn’t look like what you thought it would, TRUST. Trust GOD. This is not a blind faith, though it may Read more…